I recently went away with a friend, and then my family joined me later on, and finances (money in general) came up a lot in general conversation. I was really pleased with how open the discussions were, and I realised that not many people actually have open conversations in their day-to-day lives about money. Whilst money is seen as somewhat of a taboo to talk about, and I do agree that sometimes it is inappropriate, I do think there are some conversation topics we should normalise talking about, here are the top four money topics we should normalise!

One: Saving for a rainy day.

Actually came up quite a lot on my trip, mainly because the friend I was travelling with quit her job to take a year (or more) out to travel the world. She mentioned that quite a lot of people that she met whilst travelling were shocked and confused as to how she could afford to do that. I also commented that I experience quite a lot of the time, especially in Singapore, that if somebody loses a job, they quite quickly mention that they are unable to afford living in Singapore anymore, pack their things, and leave.

I am aware that visa situations can stop people from staying in Singapore more than a month after their visa is cancelled, but a lot of these people are on a One Pass, and if you have read my previous article, you’ll know that this pass doesn’t have so many immigration issues, and basically allows people to stay in the country even without work. So why aren’t people able to stay in the country longer than one month was they look for another job? I think it’s because many people do not save and sometimes spend beyond their means, meaning that if an emergency happens, they are not able to pay for the upfront costs.

Similarly, I think a lot of people are shocked that my friend was able to go travelling for a year, because they realised that they do not set aside enough to cover a years worth of expenses. With conscious & rigid savings of your surplus each month, and planning properly ahead, you are able to set aside for a rainy day, an emergency, or even if you want to take a break from work. Remember, you should have at least 3 to 6 months of your spending as liquid cash available.

Two: Future proofing and passing on your money.

This one might sound quite morbid, and unfortunately, it is really. But my family and I recently have experienced quite a lot of deaths, and as horrible as it is to talk about, it’s better to start talking about future planning and what happens to your finances before it’s too late. For example, my dad shared with us that one of his clients recently passed away, and being UK residents, their family were hit with a huge inheritance tax bill of 40% of the entire wealth. I commented and asked why more people don’t just take out life insurance; in the UK, we can put this into a trust, which protects it from inheritance tax, and that way, even if you have 40% of your wealth in an insurance policy, that will cover the inheritance tax bill at the end of the day. This is a lot more cost-effective than trying to put your housing into a trust, which can often mean paying a lawyer annually to maintain.

He told me that he thought that was a brilliant idea, and a really good way to inheritance tax plan, but not enough people think about it or talk about it with their family, and then unfortunately it is too late. Although in Singapore, we do not have inheritance tax, any overseas assets may be liable to whatever inheritance law is applicable in that country. Moreover, even if your assets are all in Singapore, probate can take a very long time for all the assets to be distributed correctly. Planning ahead for the worst outcome means that you can ensure that your wealth is passed quickly, so the next generation, or whoever you want it to be passed down to, and also means that your family enjoy your hard work, more than a large portion, going to the tax man!

Three: The importance of investing

My friend commented that while she was on a world cruise, she had paid for the internet package on the ship, and whilst it is expensive, I do agree that access to internet in this day and age is a must. However, I was shocked to find out that many of the people on board were not paying for internet, and we are struggling day-to-day, and even asking her to use her internet package! She had commented that it’s obvious that these people aren’t managing their finances correctly, because in a four-month cruise, during that period, you would need access to your online banking, and your investments. She also said that a few of the people on board scoffed at the idea of investments. Unfortunately, I find this very common, even today.

Investing is the only way that you can beat inflation, because most savings accounts do not beat inflation, and endowment policies and savings plans, whilst they do have a guaranteed amount, these often have incredibly high charges, and also do not beat inflation. Thinking that you are going to have a comfortable retirement without doing any savings and investing planning, is quite frankly, not a reality!

What’s more, whilst I have mentioned in the past, and I still think that you should not be checking your investments every single day, it’s important to be having regular reviews with your wealth manager, at least annually, to ensure that your financial and investment goals are still on track, and you can make any adjustments to your investments if necessary. If you are at a retirement or financial freedom stage of your life, it’s also incredibly important to plan how you are going to draw down from your investments, effectively and tax efficiently.

Four: Property

I feel like property is often shrouded in mystery, what can you buy, what can’t you buy? What kind of mortgage? What taxes are applicable and what rent should you charge? My friend has recently sold a property, and I recently closed on an apartment, so the topic of property came up quite a lot on our trip, and even more so with my family afterwards. I think it’s really important that we normalise talking about property purchase more frequently, because there seems to be a lot of misinformation out there. For example, my friend was hit with a large tax bill when she sold her property and nobody, not even her accountants, informed her about this! Many people don’t think that they can apply for a mortgage if they are an expat, which is definitely not the case. Many people don’t understand the process of buying, and how to go about finding a solicitor and so on, and I think if we open up this conversation more, there will be less chance of confusion.

To be honest, I think I have many more things in terms of finances that we should normalise discussing, but seen as I’ve been talking about these four topics a lot recently, and I have been having very productive and positive conversations, I think it’s important that we all normalise certain money conversations in the right spaces. What kind of money conversations do you think we should normalise?